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Title: What the Ten Stage course shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We live in a society where the emotional experience of "love" is conditional on behaviour. Where fear, guilt, and shame have bee...
We live in a society where the emotional experience of "love" is conditional on behaviour. Where fear, guilt, and shame have been used to try to control our child's withins behaviour, because parents believe that their children's behaviour reflects their own self-worth.
In other words, if Johnny is a well-behaved, "good boy," then his parents are good people. If Johnny acts out, and misbehaves, then there is something wrong with his parents. ("He doesn't come from a good family.")

What the Ten Stage course shows is that it is actually the good child - the family hero role -who is the most emotionally dishonest and out of touch with him/herself, while the acting-out child - the scapegoat - the child within is the most emotionally honest child in our dysfunctional families

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